The diaper attraction you mention, though in some instances is included in DD/LG, is actually another kink and lifestyle dynamic commonly referred to as ABDL and means Adult Baby Diaper Lover.

DDLG relationship and it’s appeal is very much like what you are attracted to. A dominant, in this case a Daddy Dom, caring for a submissive, a Baby or Litlle Girl.

The difference between the DD/LG and a D/S dynamic is the submissive associates as a little and the dominant takes on more of a caregiver or Daddy role, caring for and supporting his little.

A little can associate with all kinds of ages, and not all like or use baby paraphernalia like diapers, but those that do normally associate as ABDL as well.

I’ve not explained this overly well but hopefully this helps.

Hi hon,

I’m afraid not, I’m not looking for something online as I’m looking for something very much real and a part of my everyday life.

I love physically looking after a little and it’s something I strugged to deal without with a LDR previously.

Thanks for the question and have a lovely Friday night ☺️

I’d be a boyfriend too.

DD/LG is a type of relationship after all and though there are “Misters” out there, I’d want to be with a baby girl that was the moon of my life..My sun and stars.

Hi Lizzie,

Thanks for your question, it’s a good one and made me think a lot.

This is hard for me to answer but i’d have to say that for me diapers are a must for my little. This is purely because I come from an ABDL background and it has always been my main interest in the kink world. I love everything that’s involved in ABDL from changing, bottle feeding to bedtime stories and I think I mentioned before my favourite age range for a little between the age of two to four as I find it the most cute.

This is just my personal favourite age range for my little one and other daddy’s will have different preferences. I’d like to mention that whether you like wearing diapey’s or not doesn’t make you any more or less of an adorable little, they are not for everyone and good daddies understand that, and a lot of daddies don’t like them also.

There are also times where wearing a diaper may not be pratical, for example visiting family, seeing friend’s or being at work. I would never force my baby girl to wear diapers in situations she didn’t feel comfortable, in these instances she would be allowed to wear pull-ups or cute panties, I would however expect her to wear diapers as often as possible and enjoy wearing them frequently. Again, this is just my preference as I’m foremost a DL and find them both cute and sexy on a baby girl.

It’s an odd thing to actually think about but I was talking about it with a friend the other day and my preference for underwear on a girl is diapers, then cute childish panties and then lingerie. Sure I like lingerie, it’s sexy, I’m a guy but my main turn on is diapers and anything outside the fetish would think i’m mad!

Therefore for me I’d prefer a little who was an ABDL and loved diapers also, but I adore everything about little’s of all shapes, sizes, age ranges and colour, and middle’s and kittens too.

I’d like to reiterate again that whether you like wearing diapey’s or not doesn’t make you any more or less of a little and you are all equally as cute and adorable. I talk to little’s of all ages and all into different things and you are all wonderful.

Hi, Thanks for the message!

I’m reluctant to give away too many favourites as this is exactly what Movie Magic Monday was created for! As it picks up you should hopefully see lot’s of useful suggestions for films, tv shows and cartoons to watch in Little Space. If you have any suggestions yourself feel free to submit something yourself. Information on what it’s about, what can be submitted, how to do that, etc. can be found here:

http://searchingforaprincess.tumblr.com/post/95488725740/movie-magic-monday

If I had to pick a few, some of my favourites are Wreck-It Ralph, How to Train your Dragon 1 & 2, Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 1 & 2 and Hotel Transylvania :)

Hi anon, sorry I’m a little confused. Do you mean, as in living in the UK at the moment?

If so it is situational and would depend on a number of things. I mention some of it in a previous anon below which can be found on my FAQ page

searchingforaprincess.tumblr.com/post/95191626260/would-you-have-a-ldr-ddlg-with-someone-in-a-different

Hopefully this answers yours question, if i’ve misinterpreted, let me know ☺️

Hi anon, I’m sorry about that. My post was in haste and more fueled by some of the rude anons I’ve received recently containing hateful words, questioning my right to be a daddy, telling me I’m not a genuine daddy, that I can’t be very good all because we’ve been more open about my previous little life and the return of that now sweetinnocentbabygirl is encouraging me to explore it and embrace it with her.

Truth is, as my baby girl will tell you, I’m still very anxious, worried and guarded about that side of me because despite being interested ever since I was *really* little, I haven’t really had an opportunity to show and share that side with someone other than myself privately until now and while she encourages me, comforts me and makes me feel very comfortable, to the point she brought me into little space several times already, which is something I never managed to do by myself, I still get worried and scared.

You see the ABDL fetish has always been viewed extremely negatively by the outside world and even by the rest of the kink community. ABDL has always heavily been misunderstood with negative connotations and associated with children, pedophilia and often lead to being called a freak, sick, outed and potentially a damaged social and professional life in it’s wake.

If you’ve read some of my older posts from when I started my blog last year you will know it took me many years and many unhappy vanilla relationships to battle and accept my feelings fully, before exploring it further and engaging in the community. I always feared my partners, family or friends would find out and wouldn’t understand, run a million miles and I’d end up by myself and that was a deep rooted fear that I guess still has a hold on me. It took a lot to post my own little pictures because it makes me feel really uncomfortable.

I never thought I would find someone that would understand or tolerate that deep, dark part of me let alone encourage it and love it.

Luckily enough my baby girl is really understanding and knows I need a little time, and lots of encouragement and reassurance and I’m so thankful she is so patient and I love her dearly.

Anyway, I can completely appreciate where you are coming from with the labels and that people are just curious.. I guess if it helps we are part DDLG, part MDLB and part ABDL, part something unique. ☺️

Hi anon, that’s tough, I know you say being little sometimes is sexual and makes you feel horny too but it sounds like it’s also partly non sexual and a lifestyle thing for you to so you need to have a balance and find something you are both comfortable with.

I know you are reluctant to do this because you are worried you will hurt your daddy’s feelings but the only way to resolve this is to sit down and talk to him about this. Tell him exactly what you told me in this question and just make sure you also reassure him that it’s nothing to do with you going off him or anything like that, just that you feel the need to be little that bit more and when things turn sexual it pulls you out of it. If your daddy loves you he will want nothing more than to make you happy and you can both find something that works for you both, a middle ground.

Good luck hon, it will be fine.